People   (Re-unions, trace old friends and relatives.)

Thanx Christi, I managed to contact them and we have been to the grave.Amazingly it was facing the grave of my mums first husband who died in his very early twenties. We are going to mark the grave in some way over the next week, as theres a faded old pot on with his name only. I suspect that the last member of the family to be buried there has no family, cos the grave doesn't look like its been touched since 1976 when she was laid to rest, even the pot with his name on was still to one side from when the grave was dug.The deeds are still in my grandmothers name, so now should come to my mum, but my great uncle , his wife and his step mother are all buried there too, my great uncle asked for the deeds when his wife died young and never returned them to my grandmother.
Its like a weight has been lifted off my mum , its bothered her for years.
So thanks everyone for your help.