General   (General discussion, talk about anything.)

My ex in laws didn't care too much for me.Middle class southern snobs that they were.
16 years later when I ended up divorced through no fault of my own, they changed their tune.They now realise how bad they were in particular ex mother in law, who spent entire time she was alone in my company wearing headfones so she could ignore me!!
I didn't put a foot wrong, and still don't, this gives me the upperhand as it shows them up for what they are.I make sure they see their grandchildren, get copies of school reports and are foned regular etc etc.But I have chosen not to have contact with them myself since I divorced, I owe them nothing.But they have a right to see my children all the same.
Everybody should live their life and make their own mistakes, thats how we learn.But keep things sweet as much as you can cos we can't replace our parents.