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Aitch, i felt really sad when i read your post. Your late wife sounded like a real lovely lady.Some of my older family members have lost there partners of many years and the sadness is overwhelming and the loneliness too.
What your wife said is so true, about, " no matter what you do for people at the end you are only a very short memory". That is such a shame because you don't want people to forget has you know how caring and kind your loved one was. But sadly people do forget.All that matters is that you and yours never will.