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thanks for advice appreciated and i agree and think he would be racked with guilt if something happened to her, but he says she put him in an awful position and he wasnt about to break up is marriage to please her, i will keep on trying though, our children who are now in there twenties still go to grandmas and we have never ever involved them,thanks anyhow and oh what i would give to have a brew and a chat with my mam,good luck with your mother.