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Hello WinWin, just read your post this morning and can only sympathise with your prediciment, you have to have the wisdom of King Solomon sometimes, although have to say danni and one or two others on Wigan World always write some very intelligent advice. I myself have to confront what to do when my mother returns to the UK this month after 3 months in Switzerland. Allthough pillored from pillar to post, her son absolutely refuses to have anything to do with my mother who is now 88 and very infirm. He also refuses to say why he no longer wishes to stay in contact with her, but its possible that he just cant find the time to, wash, clean, shop, chat etc. There's is always 2 sides to an argument, but every time she feells a little under the weather, I think what would he feel like if she passed away and he hadn't made the effort to see her one last time before its too late. Sorry about the grammer and long-winded reply, not used to writing in English any more. All the best Paul Nicholson