Not saying all parents, just some they put their kids on a shelf, pushing them on to others when they want to do what they want to do. Sorry parenting is a 24/7 job you aren;t suppose to get a vacation from them. You wanted to be a parent, then you want to have more kids and you do the same to them.My nephews spent more time at my parents house then their own. They start calling their grandparents mommy and daddy. You want to have kids take care of them if you can take care of the children all by yourself without putting them aside so you can have a good time. than have more.